We came up with a system that makes it very easy. We have 2 hampers in our room, one for delicates and one for regulars.
|Delicates go in the lavender, regulars in the green.|
We don't have enough whites for a separate load, and I don't usually sort lights and darks unless I have a bunch of new clothes. Really, it doesn't matter. The boys have a basket in their room for their clothes. Theirs just all get done as a regular load (if they do have something delicate, like rare dressy clothes, they go in the hamper in our room.)
Here's where the genius of this system comes into play: I only do a load when a hamper is full. Everything is pre-sorted, so I don't waste time on that task. I usually don't have multiple loads to do on any given day.
As for sheets and towels, I do those in between.